the final full week of our mission, the week of Dec. 2, 2013

It was surreal to be experiencing the final week of our mission in upstate New York. At one point in time, it seemed as if we would be gone forever, but, looking back, the 23 months have flown by.

All of a sudden we were attending our last transfer meeting, on Tues., Dec. 3. Every 6 weeks, Carl and I have attended transfer meetings, saying good-bye to departing missionaries and hearing their final testimonies.

Now it was our turn to give our final testimony.

This is Sister Butters, one of the departing missionaries, is giving her testimony. We gave ours right after.

We said "Good-bye" to the Arringtons. Lorraine is battling brain cancer. It is so hard. Her husband Lee, who isn't in the best of health, takes such good care of her with such love and devotion.

We spent a lovely evening at Patty Lucero's home, where she and her grandson Tyler made us a dinner of  Navajo tacos. The sister missionaries came with us. After dinner, we were treated to a violin concert by Sister Andrus and Tyler, two very talented violinists. The music was heavenly!

On Wednesday, Dec. 4,  Jerry and Barbara Johnson treated us to a wonderful lunch at Hose 22 Firehouse Grill in Charlotte, a small town in north Rochester. Hose 22 is a wonderfully restored 1916 fire station.

We love all of our dear friends in New York and miss them so much!

.Down the street from the Firehouse Grill stands the scenic Charlotte Genesee Lighthouse. This octagonal 40 foot stone tower, built in 1822 on an Indian campground, stands on Lake Ontario, at the mouth of the Genesee River.

View from the lighthouse -- mouth of the Genesee River and Lake Ontario. We lucked out with the weather. The following week, the afternoon we headed back home, the nice weather disappeared, and snows and a bitter cold winter descended on Upstate New York.

a final visit to Palmyra, Dec. 2013

On my birthday, Dec. 5, we made our final visit to Palmyra.  Luckily, our last two weeks in the mission were unaffected by the polar vortex that hit right after we left New York. We took a final stroll through Sacred Grove and parts of the Joseph Smith farm.

 

When we entered the Joseph Smith Farm Visitor Center, Elder and Sister Poulson and Sisters Astorga and Sister Rippstein surprised me by singing "Happy Birthday". How we will miss not only the sacred sites, but our associations with wonderful junior and senior missionaries.

We took a few photos inside the visitor's center, to capture a picture for our Christmas card.

The building you see through the window of the Visitor's Center is a replica of the Joseph Smith Log Home. It recently got a new roof, hence the bright color, which will fade with time.

Next, Sister Astorga (from Guatemala) and Sister Rippstein (from Texas) gave us our final tour of the Joseph Smith Log Home.  This has been one of the highlights of our mission, getting to know such wonderful young missionaries. The Sister missionaries serve for 18 months, and can now serve at age 19. They do such a fine job teaching others about the Gospel of Jesus Christ that has been restored upon the earth.
                         

Recap of week #3 of final weeks of mission

On Monday morning, we looked out our bedroom window and saw this -- snow before Thanksgiving!

 

The next day, we had a district Temple trip. It's extra special being in the Temple with our young missionaries.

 Our Brockport district: the old folks with Elder Johnston, Elder Kelly, Sister Butters, Sister Sumsion Elder Barnes, and Elder Fierros.

Sister Graham, who was also there with her district,   did a photo shoot with the doll she carries around with her.  It was given to her by a Primary class in her home ward. She e-mails the class pictures of where the doll goes with her, so the children can catch a glimpse into the life of a missionary. A very clever idea!

 

 

We had a fun Thanksgiving Day District Meeting, with  Elder Fierros teaching  us how to make tortillas from scratch! His Grandmother taught him.

 Those tortillas made the best breakfast tortillas!

We had Thanksgiving dinner with other senior missionary couples at the Hill Cumorah Visitors Center, in the basement. We each brought different dishes. It was all very yummy.

 

 

On Saturday, we did our very last move, (something like move # 36 in the 23 months we've been here!) . It was a simple move, since we didn't have to buy very much. The Elders were relocating from one apartment to a new one which we had recently found for them. 

Here is Elder Willis moving his mattress into the new apartment.

How many Elders does it take to move a pole lamp?

 (L. to R.: Elder Rawe, Elder Erekson--Elder Rawe and Erekson are the Assistants to the Mission President and help with moves, by driving the mission moving van--and Elder Brunner)

Everything is all moved in, and now the Elders face the daunting task of making their new place look like home!  These are such great young men, who have worked so hard with this move.

 

 

Tonight, after our fast Sunday dinner with all our missionaries, we had one last photo with Sister Butters, who is completing her mission, and going home (Utah) on Tues. She will most likely be landing a job writing for the Deseret News when she gets back home. We are heading back to Texas in 12 more days. It sure feels strange being at this point in our mission, so close to the end.

 

Week #4 has come and gone

Our remaining few weeks, have been flying by. Last week, we had fun with Elder and Sister Ray, as they accompanied us for the last few days of apartment inspections this month .(Next month, we'll be home in Texas, and they will be hitting the snowy roads all by themselves). 

 Nice thing about our mission is that there are always so many interesting places to visit, along the way. Elder Ray had never been to Niagara Falls, so even though it was freezing cold, we made a quick stop, since it's minutes away from the last apartment on our route.

 After the big Thanksgiving snowstorm hits Buffalo in a day or two, this last bit of the Autumn color will be gone.

 

 

On the way home from Niagara, we decided to join another senior missionary couple, Elder and Sister Young for supper at Rudy's Diner in Medina. Rudy's is next door to their apartment, and someplace I always thought it would be fun to go to. I'd never been in a "Diner" before. It was a good excuse to visit with the Youngs, a couple we love very much.

Elder Young is a retired Church Seminary teacher. He taught at Pleasant Grove High School in Utah, which is where I did my student teaching . Sister Young is one of my mission heroes. She suffers from Lupus, which has almost destroyed her vocal cords, so she speaks barely above a whisper. The Youngs originally signed up for a 6 month mission due to Sister Young's health issues, but have now extended it to more than a year.  This is in spite of Sister Young's continued health challenges, even requiring recent hospital stays. Sister Young is so upbeat, and has a smile that warms your heart. She and her husband are two of the most loving, Christ-like people I've met. Everyone in the little town of Medina loves them.

 

 

So, after a fun time together at Rudy's, we strolled the quaint main street of this little canal town. We visited some of the neat little shops, like the Candle Nook (shown here) and Della's Chocolate shop. We had fun talking with the owners of these great little shops, who have become very good friends of the Youngs. 

 

 

What a great ending to the week, as Andrew and Heather Jonas were baptized on Saturday. They came over our place for dinner, along with the missionaries, last weekend. They are a great young couple. Heather coaches women's  rugby at a local college, while Andrew does computer work and is a volunteer firefighter.

 

From left to right: Elder Jones, Andrew and Heather, Elder Kelly, Elder Fierros. Taken after the baptism. It is so neat to see the joy the Gospel of Jesus Christ brings to others.

Week #5

Our time is rapidly winding down here in New York. Here are a few photos from last week.

We had the first snow of the season! It fell softly throughout the night, and didn't stay on the ground very long.

The remnants of the terrible storms that brought tornadoes through the Midwest, blew through our part of NewYork.  The wind was howling all night.

We had a very busy week, with the remainder of the zone conferences. It was sad to be standing in front the wonderful young missionaries for the last time, for our brief segment on housing. We presented the usual housing awards--certificates for 100% apartments, and a drawing for all apartments who have earned 95% and above, with one apartment winning the prize-- McDonald's gift cards. I put together a little "tutorial" on establishing good relationships with their landlords, or how to be ideal tenants. A few missionaries from each zone participated in a little skit, with one of them playing the part of the landlord. We got a lot of laughs out of that.

The Relief Society sisters in each of the hosting ward buildings serve lunch at the zone conferences. The Palmyra ladies went all out. Kristi Jung stayed up til 2:30 a.m, making the most gorgeous edible centerpieces.

    

After the final zone conference in Palmyra, we were minutes from the Sacred Grove. We took advantage of what was the last nice day of late Autumn and spent 2 hours at our  favorite place in this Rochester New York Mission. We were the only people in the Grove. The setting sun cast a beautiful glow in the peaceful forest.

 

  Here is Carl, standing next to a 230 year old "Witness Tree", an American Beech that stood in the forest when Joseph Smith entered with a deep desire to know which of all the many churches he should join, and received a marvelous answer from a living God and His Son Jesus Christ.

 As we left the Grove, we marveled at how the lowering sun set the last of the  autumn leaves ablaze, creating a glorious frame for this photo of the  Palmyra Temple. At the same time, higher in the sky, the white moon softly glowed in the fading sky.

 How grateful we are to have served for 23 months in such a place as this!

Week # 6

Our quarterly zone conferences started this past week. It's sad to think that this was the last time we got to be with Buffalo South and Buffalo North zones.  Next week, we have 4 more days of zone conferences.

Here we are with one of our wonderful missionaries, Elder Bagley, from Georgia. It's his last zone conference too. He's going home next week. He promised to come by and see us when he drives through Houston.  We feel such a special bond with our missionaries, and love them so much.

Saturday was very awesome. Sister Butters, who is in our Brockport District, was asked to speak in Palmyra at the baptism of this sweet lady, Kathy. Sister Butters had taught Kathy for 6 months prior to being transferred to Brockport. We were so happy to give her a ride to Palmyra so she could be a part of  Kathy's baptism. Sister Butters has seen a remarkable transformation in Kathy, from someone who was very hardened to someone who radiates true happiness. That's what missionary work is all about -- sharing the Gospel with others, and bringing them to Jesus Christ.

From left to right: Sister Killen, Kathy, Sister Graham, and Sister Butters.

Week # 7

On Tuesday, we moved the Gowanda Elders out of their temporary home.   While their new apartment was in the finishing stages of being remodeled, the owner has graciously let them stay in one of his homes, which we nicknamed "the Mansion." Mark S. is probably the wealthiest man in town, and owns the local funeral home. He is very happy to be renting to the Church and his rent is very reasonable and well within the allotted budget.

 

The" Mansion" sits high on a hill overlooking Gowanda.

 

This fellow lives in one of the rooms in the other part of the mansion. The owner is remodeling that part. Our newest senior missionary couple moved into the Mansion this week, after the Elders moved out.

Standing up: Carl, Sir Lancelot, Elder Bevan, Elder Cashmore.

Kneeling: Elder Hadley and Elder Ivy.

 

The new apartment, a small apartment in an old house, is beautifully remodeled by the owner, who runs the funeral home next door. Elder Ivy and Elder Cashmore are living there now. (the other two Elders live down the road in Cattauragus, on the edge of the Seneca Indian reservation.

The counter tops are stainless steel! That red glow comes from a light strip that is constantly changing colors -- a fancy night light invented by the owner.

 

Our replacements, Elder and Sister Ray (Sister Ray is the sister the apostle Elder Anderson), have arrived in the Mission! We started training them on Wednesday, taking them down to Canandaigua with us, where we found another new missionary apartment. After that we headed further south, down past Lake Seneca, for a little outing at Watkins Glen, a very scenic site with 19 waterfalls and 200 feet cliffs. It was cold, but the steep hike warmed us up.

 On the way there, Carl stopped for gas in the small town of PennYan and here's what we saw coming down the street-- an Amish buggy!

 

Notice how we look  a bit haggard and  worn out, and the Rays look brand new.

 

 

 

 

 

On Thursday, the missionaries came over to our place for a Halloween district meeting and lunch.

It took me a while to realized the things on top of the Sisters' heads were supposed to be frogs' eyes.

 From left to right: Elder Fierros (band new missionary), Elder Barnes, Elder Johnston, Elder Kelly

Sister Sumsion and Sister Butters -- our current Brockport "sons" and "daughters". We sure do love them.

 

On Friday, a mini hurricane blew through our part of  upstate New York. All the leaves in our part of the apartment complex got blown onto our front door entry way.

 

Even a trip to the local grocery store is scenic around here. These flaming red Maple leaves won't be on the trees for too much longer.

 

Yesterday afternoon, we had our Ward's fall social.  The weather was quite cold and rainy. We had it inside the barn of one of the ward members. Homemade hot soups and hot spiced apple cider warmed us up. It was so pretty with the view of corn fields out the open barn doors. We were glad we went, and we had a fun time fellowshipping.

Today, ended up a busy week, with me fixing dinner for 10 -- us, the 6 missionaries in our district, and a wonderful young couple who are investigating the Church and have set a baptism date for Nov. 23.  Carl cut up one of our Halloween pumpkins, and we enjoyed fresh pumpkin pie for dessert.